50 Shades of Pathetic – Is your neediness attracting toxic relationships?

Unhappy Couple having Problems at Bedroom

Are you being a high value woman worthy of love of the highest callibre, or are you being a pathetic needy woman that attracts men who will use you, abuse you, lie to you and brainwash you into you feeling less than. I know we have all had periods in our life when we desperately want a man in our life. Someone who wants us, for us, just the way we are, warts and all. We attach ourselves to the first guy that gives us the slightest bit of attention and create a total fantasy relationship in our heads. We … Continue reading

What’s Love Got To Do With It?

WHAT’S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT? Why loving someone may not be your best option. What is required for you to decide you love someone or don’t love someone? Judgement – whether good or bad! Judgement- What’s right or good about the person, or conversely, what’s not? Unfortunately, when we decide we love someone we place judgement on them, knowingly or unknowingly. With that usually follows the expectation that they will continue to be that. For example, you think your partner is such a good provider until one day, he or she quits their job. Then what?  What if they … Continue reading

How To Stop Being Abused

  Are you tired of being abused, taken advantage of, or being lied to? Have you had people take your kindness for granted? Do you seem to attract the wrong types; the players, the bullies, the accusers? Well GIRL, it’s time to take a look at what you are doing to yourself. What have you been settling for? Have you been abusing yourself? If you are ever going to have people in your life that support you, treat you with respect and honour you, you will have to first take a good look at how you treat YOU!   Ultimately … Continue reading

How Can I Let Go Of My Past?

Do you have something from your past that confused you, angered or upset you or burst your happy bubble? Was there an event in your life that managed to generate all of those thoughts, feelings and emotions in one foul swoop? Did you do everything to logically figure it out and tried to recall every intimate detail as if you would find the key to understanding what happened, why it happened and how you could let it go or fix it?   This is the trap and workings of the insane mind. You see to me, if there were a … Continue reading